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Belldark I am so sorry buddy. I sent you a PM. Let us know if you need anything.

PS

After I posted I saw your post ROFL!!!

Hey Bell... I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Mine and my family's thoughts and prayers go out to you. I'm also here for ya if you need anything, bud.

Big hugs being sent ur way. I am so sorry for u Bell, I cant imagine what you are feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers. And like Rico said feel free to call anytime.

Bell: I'm glad I could give you a laugh in your time of need at my expense.....you fuck!
Anyways, if you ever want to talk on voice, PM me please.

Damn Bell, sorry to hear about your mother she sounds like she was quite the special lady. I can't even imagine what you are going through so I won't try to give any advice except that if you do try to go into seclusion the local SN posse here will mount up and find you. Stay strong man.

ps: hating hedcrash made me lawl.

Bell,

You have my deepest sympathy with the loss of your mother.

If you need to get away I'm 3 hours south in Indy and the door is always open.

Sorry Bell. It sucks My dad still visits me in my dreams. I'm certain your Mother will visit yours

Belldark, you have my deepest sympathies. This can be a rough patch. Do not isolate yourself, stay around friends and family. It is possible to get into a depressive, unfriendly state and not even realize it. The only way out is to reach out to loved ones like you are doing here. It happened to me. You will be okay, my friend. Like Bloodless, my mother visits me in my dreams. Stay connected with us and your family and you will do great.

Well Bell, not sure what to say other than to offer condolences. Keep friends and loved ones close to help get through this time. Remember the good times you had with her and it will help to ease the pain with time. Best wishes to you.

Bell,
Skilly and I were so sad when we read your post. Your commitment to your family and the high regard and abundant love you had for your mom were evident from the very first time we met you. I am sure that she knew how much you adored her, and that your love and respect gave her comfort. We will be thinking of you, your family, and the whole community that is feeling this incredible loss.

We love you, man.

Skilly and Addy

PS – skilly now knows your full name, so you may need to relocate. Keep an eye out, and I will let you know if he heads out of town on “business” anytime soon.

Bell,

So sorry to hear of this. If you need anything let me know, I'm only a few hours from you in Madison.

Belldark, I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your mom was a very special person. You will be in my prayers.

Well Bell like everyone else I am sorry for your loss. I can relate to being a mommas boy as I am 42 and still my mom's baby boy, and I can also relate to the fact that for a long time I just didn't like people very much and tried to stay in my own little world as much as I could.

As much as that might bring comfort you need to get out and talk with people. Besides that, you have all of us to will lend an ear anytime. I'm sure there are a few sick bastards on here that would really find an ear and send it to you but I will save that for another post

I am not near by but my door is open too and I will bet I can feed ya better here then anyone else can so come on down!

If you need anything don't hesitate to ask.

i haven't lost a parent yet (well maybe one time in walmart when they tried to leave me there)...however nothing on the scale. I love my mom and i live so far away from them but I can image them being gone from this world forever. I guess all you can to is keep them in your minds and heart and be sure to share your mom with your kids in the future...that will insure they keep on living in our memories (no one is truly dead until they are forgotten).

Anyway Bell, I consider you a friend and one of the first peeps I think about when i click onto the slapper link...and it's not all out sex too (i know, hard to believe).

I'll take that bet!

so here's how it will work Bell will come up here and let me feed him and then after he has had some good food he will go down to your place E2 and you can feed him (hopefully he won't get too sick)

and then we will let Bell decide.... if by some strange quirk of fate he is unable to discern who got the better grub on we will just rinse and repeat the process until he has come to a decision or explodes from all that good food